5 Children's Books to Spark Conversations About Bullying
BLAIR SHARP
August 1, 2024
August is Don’t Be a Bully Month, and we’re back—as promised—with more summer reading recommendations for your family! This list focuses on books for school-aged kids and younger. But first, let’s chat about how to talk to your kids about bullying.
It all starts with open communication. Let your kids know they can always come to you about anything, no matter what. After all, communication is the foundation for any good relationship, especially the one with your kiddos. If you want them to open up, you need to show them it’s safe. Reassure them that you won’t get mad if they share their experiences and feelings.
Talk about the importance of treating everyone with kindness and respect. For younger children, start this conversation early on and keep it simple, like “be nice” or “use kind words.”
Explain the different ways bullying can happen—it’s not always physical. Talk about teasing, spreading rumors, or being mean online. This helps them understand what to look out for, whether it’s happening to them or someone else.
Empower them to stand up for themselves. Teach them it’s okay to say “no” or “stop” when someone is being unkind. Encourage them to speak up if they see someone else being bullied—remind them it’s helping, not tattling.
With these tips in mind, here are some age-appropriate books about bullying:
Llama Llama and the Bully Goat
School days are full of new experiences and new friends, but when his classmate, Gilroy Goat, starts teasing Llama Llama, he’s unsure what to do. Remembering his teacher’s advice, he walks away and tells an adult. Soon, the two classmates discover that even after a conflict, friendship might be possible.
How to Be a Lion
Leonard, a lion, and his best friend, Marianne, a duck, face bullies who question their unique friendship. Through these challenges, Leonard learns to stay true to himself, embrace differences, and use his voice when faced with negativity.
A Big Guy Took My Ball!
Gerald and Piggie are an unlikely duo, and they couldn’t be more different. When a bully takes Piggie’s beloved ball, Gerald faces his fears and shows Piggie the true meaning of friendship. We love the Elephant and Piggie book series, and this one doesn’t disappoint!
My Footprints
Thuy, a Vietnamese American girl with two moms, feels like she doesn’t quite fit in and is hurt by bullies at school. Finding comfort on her walk home, a chance encounter with a bird sparks her imagination. With the help of her parents, Thuy envisions herself as a powerful animal and learns that strength comes in many forms.
It's Okay To Be Different
Through colorful illustrations and silly humor, author Todd Parr encourages readers to embrace our differences and ask for help when needed, promoting a vibrant celebration of inclusivity and self-acceptance. This book is also available in a bilingual English-Spanish edition.
Remember, kids are sponges who learn so much from watching us. Show them how to be kind to others, especially those who are different. If you or your child need help with bullying or cyberbullying, reach out to someone or call a helpline.
Have you talked with your kids about bullying?
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