Let’s be honest: English is a super tricky language to learn! Silent letters, multiple meanings for the same word, and who invented those irregular verbs!? It’s no wonder some kids struggle to get excited about reading. But don’t worry. There are plenty of ways to spark a love of books in your home, even if they’re not natural bookworms.

First things first: validation. Kids who dislike reading might feel frustrated and discouraged. Acknowledge those struggles. Let them know that how they’re feeling is okay. A simple “I know reading can be tough for you” can go a long way to build their confidence. 

Be a reading role model. Kids are like sponges. They learn so much by watching us—so make sure they see you reading for pleasure. For me, that’s right before I go to sleep. I may only get through a few pages, but it’s better than nothing. If you’re not a huge fan of reading books, try a magazine or even your favorite blog. 

Choose books and topics they enjoy. Don’t force your child to read books about animals if they’re way more into professional wrestling. Can you tell we’ve got a WWE fan in our house? Let them explore different genres until they find something they’re into. 

Make reading fun with activities. Gamifying works for so many of our parenting struggles—until your child realizes what you’re up to—and boy, I can relate. We keep early reader books and word-related activities in a living room cabinet filled with options like sight word flash cards, reading workbooks, Zingo (they have multiple versions), Bob Books, and books at his reading level.

One thing to remember for the early reader books is that the numbered level system varies between authors, so peek inside to be sure they’re a good fit for your child’s reading abilities. You want them to feel confident and successful, not frustrated. 

Embrace technology. Check out educational apps and toys to help improve your child’s reading skills. Try listening to audiobooks to get their imaginations going.   

Make visiting your local library or bookstore part of your routine. Let your kiddo browse the shelves and choose their books. Many libraries host events for all ages and abilities, such as storytime and other reading-related activities. Ask the librarians for help if you’re not sure where to start.

Read aloud to them. Even older kids enjoy being read to. It’s a great way to bond and expose them to new vocabulary and ideas. When the book ends, talk about it. Ask questions to work on their comprehension. 

Create a cozy reading space. Designate a special spot in your home where your child can curl up with a good book. Add comfy pillows, blankets, and good lighting. We recently cleaned out some “kiddie” stuff in my 8-year-old’s room, which made space for a little upgrade. Now I’m in reading-nook brainstorm mode! 

Offer incentives or rewards for reading. Did you know the Pizza Hut BOOK IT! Program still exists? It just looks a little different today. As someone who excelled at reading, a colorful button with stickers and pizza was enough for me. But if your kid is like mine, they might need more motivation. And there’s no shame in bribing kids to read. Ahem, I mean rewarding them for the time they spend reading. Track and celebrate their progress with sticker charts, celebrate milestones with a special outing, or let them choose a new book as a prize.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. You’re probably not an educator, so it's normal to feel overwhelmed. Reach out to your child’s teacher or school for support. Many districts have special reading programs for kids needing extra help. 

The most important thing to remember is to make reading a positive and enjoyable experience for your child. With some creativity and patience, you can watch their confidence with words grow. 

How’s reading going in your house?

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